The Value of Friendship

The Value of Friendship: A Call to Build and Cherish Relationships By Rev. Ernest Odogba Proverbs 18:24 “A man who has friends must himself be friendly, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.” Do you have friends? I’m asking if you truly have people in your life beyond casual acquaintances—whether coworkers, church members, or prayer partners. Friendships are relationships built on shared activities and mutual trust. Unfortunately, some people shy away from friendships, claiming they cannot trust anyone. This attitude often stems from their own lack of friendliness and inability to build trust. The Bible teaches that love “believes all things” (1 Corinthians 13:7), which should guide us in forming and keeping friendships. A friend is someone you know well, hold in high regard, and trust. There’s wisdom in the saying, “Show me your friends, and I’ll tell you who you are.” Even Jesus had relationships with His disciples, eventually calling them His friends (John 15:15). Scripture does not discourage friendship but warns against ungodly associations. If you lack friends, it may indicate you’re not showing yourself friendly, as Proverbs 18:24 suggests. Many people struggle to maintain friendships due to quarrels, fights, or bad manners that push others away. Remember, a king is honored by his people, and your circle of friends reflects your influence and values. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 “Two are better than one because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls, for he has no one to help him up.” Do you value the friends you have? Don’t push them away—it reduces your influence and weakens your support system. If you find fault with everyone, it may be time to self-reflect. The inability to maintain long-term friendships often indicates a lack of friendliness. Learn to trust and regard people. Walk with them in mutual understanding. Avoid jealousy, suspicion, and envy, which only isolate you further. A free and loving heart attracts love in return. Embrace the beauty of friendship—it is God’s design for life.

Does God always andwer sll prayers? No

Does God always andwer sll prayers? No By Dr Ernest Odogba Right Motives and Reverence: Keys to Answered Prayers Bible Reference: Proverbs 28:9 “If anyone turns a deaf ear to my instruction, even their prayers are detestable. God does not always answer every prayer. He examines the motives behind our requests. Self-centered prayers often have limitations because God does not intend for us to focus solely on ourselves and our families. The Bible reminds us that neglecting God’s word or forsaking His law makes our prayers an abomination (Proverbs 28:9). Many prayers go unanswered because people disregard the importance of listening to God’s Word. Some attend church or crusades with the sole purpose of receiving miracles, intentionally arriving late to skip the time of worship and teaching. This behavior reveals misplaced priorities—valuing blessings over the Word of God. When God sees that you care more about your personal needs than reverence for His Word, your prayers may be hindered. Remember, “Faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God” (Romans 10:17). In my experience, those who eagerly and joyfully come early to the house of God or attend crusades are more likely to receive miracles. Their eagerness reflects faith and honor for God. Some who arrive an hour before a crusade begins often receive breakthroughs because their hearts are in the right posture to hear, believe, and act on God’s Word. To experience effective prayers and a deeper connection with God, prioritize attending church and crusades on time. Value the Word of God as your foundation before presenting your petitions. Approach God with the right motives, honor His Word, and your prayers will be powerful and effective.

Forgiveness and Reconciliation: A Call to Sacrificial Love

Forgiveness and Reconciliation: A Call to Sacrificial Love By Rev Ernest Odogba Bible Reference: Matthew 5:23-24 “Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift.” Forgiveness is not just about having peace in your own heart toward someone; it is also about ensuring that the other person does not hold any offense against you. If you realize that someone is hurt by something you said or did, it is your responsibility to reach out and settle the matter. This act of reconciliation is necessary for your prayers to be effective and for your relationship with God to remain strong. Thinking, “He is the one who hurt me; he should apologize first,” or, “I did nothing wrong, so I don’t need to take any action,” reflects ignorance of Scripture. The one who becomes aware of the offense, regardless of who is at fault, should take the first step toward peace. Delaying reconciliation not only hinders your spiritual growth but also strains your relationship with the Holy Spirit. Never involve others to fight on your behalf or to take sides in your conflict. Instigating others—intentionally or unintentionally—extends the issue and fosters division. Even if others take offense or act on what you shared, the responsibility lies with you for stirring the situation. For the sake of peace, do not let others’ disputes influence your own relationships. Keep your heart free of all bitterness or offenses, as living in peace with others is the highest calling. Forgiveness is not just about your own freedom—it is also about ensuring the other person has a free and peaceful heart toward you. Walk in love, and strive to avoid causing offense to anyone. Sacrificial love, which reflects God’s heart, means taking responsibility and even accepting blame for the sake of peace. As Scripture teaches, “Do all things without grumbling or disputing” (Philippians 2:14), and let love guide all your actions.

THE MINDSET OF TRUE SUCCESS

The Mindset for True Success By Rev. Dr. Ernest Odogba Many people struggle to succeed in life, business, and ministry because they rely solely on prayer, fasting, and impartation from anointed individuals. While these are important, they are not enough to bring success. Wisdom and integrity are essential to reaching a position of prominence. If your focus is always on what you can gain after rendering a service, life will frustrate you. Instead, serve selflessly without expecting rewards or appreciation. Giving your best effort with the right heart is the key to divine elevation. God is moved when you think about what you can give rather than what you can receive. This mindset opens doors and positions you for blessings beyond your imagination. While it’s good to appreciate the kindness of others, do not base your expectations on what they can give you. The Bible reminds us, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” Prioritize offering your service, support, or resources over receiving from others. Starting today, take a stand and reshape your mindset. Focus on what you can do or give, and watch how God transforms your life with unprecedented blessings.

The Power of Purposeful Giving by Rev. Dr. Ernest Odogba

The Power of Purposeful Giving by Rev. Dr. Ernest Odogba Never assume that someone who has been a blessing in your life—whether your father, guardian, or pastor—is so wealthy that they do not need your financial gifts. Your giving is not about their need but about your benefit. When you give to them, their grace and anointing can flow into your life, leading to your upliftment. Giving to the poor, widows, or orphans is an act of benevolence and kindness that attracts God’s mercy because you have shown mercy. However, giving to those in higher positions—such as spiritual leaders or mentors—brings prosperity, open doors, and success into your life. The principle works both ways: the poor should give to the rich to rise higher, while the rich should give to the poor, widows, orphans, and disadvantaged individuals to attract God’s mercy. Many of these individuals may not be living righteously or have the time to pray, but your generosity can open the door for divine intervention in their lives and yours.